When It's Already Over

Another latest and hottest issue between the mystery girl, "A" and my friend shocked me. As I am the only one being entrusted to transcript the story of their love and sacrifice, I have to be very honest yet without disclosing who are the people involved. Being the one who mostly know what's the real score behind them, I have to be careful with my words.

Yet this very unfortunate circumstance happened during the close-to-midnight conversation of my friend with A. The almost three years relationship they had as flings (I can't find any good description of what they really are together) already came to an end. Since A can't sacrifice her heart the third time by loving another man, she opted and will never choose my friend. But my friend has understood the fact that he and A can't be in a relationship then. 

As A wanted to regain friendship through peaceful conversation amidst a very traumatic experience, my friend just kept quiet. He doesn't want to talk more about friendship again since it was a very painful experience for him. It is true that one can't just shift everything as on how one wanted it to be. Because of that, A forced my friend to be friends again, yet she didn't get any good response like "I don't know." 

My friend's still loved A for that very last minutes of the day, he tried to call A so that he could hear for the last time the sweet and charming voice of the girl she loved; for that won't happen again if A is already in a relationship. 

'Twas Saturday night when he received a text message from A written in a native language. My friend couldn't understand the message but as how A summarized it, it was just her way of saying "Take care always." Here is the exact message forwarded of my friend.

A: Mg ingat ka lge, 'wag mong ppabyaan srili moh, my gal8 ka mn sa akn lge pa rn akong and2 pra sau...

Sat 25 Feb 2012, 11:24 PM

A: Halong gid pirme, salamat gid sa tanan nga bagay nga gin himo mo, wala ka lang kabalo kung ano ka ka-importante sa akon, hindi mo man ni mainchindihan, gusto ko ipabalo sa imo nga gin palangga ta ka galing kinanglan ko pughungan ang nabtyagan ko para sa imo... :-(

Sun 26 Feb 2012, 1:12 AM

A: Ndi moh mn ma-getz ung tntx ko, itz jst my way of sayng 'tke care alwyz' ...

Sun 26 Feb 2012, 1:13 AM

Since my friend read the message by the time he woke up the next morning, he just said to A  to go to church and pray so that our burden could lessen. Before my friend go to bed to rest, he taught of texting A for the last time.

My Friend: Wag kang mag alala kahit ndi mo na sabihin un alam ko na un... Dumadaan talaga ang tao sa mga ganyang desisyon... Nagmamatigas lang ako pero at the end of the day kaibigan padin kita... sana in time makahanp ndin aq ng mamahalin ko.. Sana nasa tabi tabi lang sya.. kylangan q n cguro tlga magmahal ulit...

Sun 26 Feb 2012, 10:02 PM

And my friend got no response until the morning, maybe it's the beginning that their relationship and sacrifice has been really over. As I am the one writing all of these about A and my friend, I hope it's really the last since the both of them are really in a very difficult situation. In God's time, I hope they could find true love on their respective endeavors.